Women should have sex with whomever they want – Dayo Amusa

Dayo Amusa

Popular Yoruba actress, Dayo Amusa, has taken to social media platforms to advocate that women should be at liberty to have sex with whomever they want without any fear of backlash from society.

According to her, women are social beings like men, hence, they should not be tied to marriage commitment before being intimate with any man.

“The ish I’m about to raise here now might probably offend some of you, even if it results in an unfollow, Iyen gan tun nice, she wrote”

“I enjoy having sex…….” she added.

The actor who is also a singer said that people should have sex just for sex sake.

“You know the thing that people do that is acceptable in society if you’re married, or if you’re trying to conceive a baby or if you’ve been in a partnership with somebody for some time but most definitely not acceptable if you have sex with somebody on the first date or if you have sex with somebody that you don’t know all that well.”

“Why can’t people just have sex for the sake of having sex? Why does a woman that enjoys having sexual relationships with a partner or partners automatically make people jump to the conclusion that the woman doesn’t respect herself? Why does a woman have to justify herself? I don’t care if you sleep with 200 people or you’ve only ever been with 1 or none.”

“I don’t care if you’re sleeping with one partner, or you’re sleeping with two, three or twenty partners. I don’t care if you have sex on the first date or wait until the 30th date. Want to know why I don’t care? Because it’s none of my business.”

“You know your body, and at the end of the day it’s your body, therefore, you make the rules. Why are women being shamed for having sexual relationships?”

“The sad part is the majority of it is women shaming other women. SUPPORT EACH OTHER….. SEX IS A NATURAL HUMAN INTERACTION. You don’t owe an explanation to anybody. And you surely are not “disrespecting yourself” because you enjoy having sex. Be transparent, and educate yourself before expressing such stupidity. But make sure you are playing safe o. Make safe choices.”

Her advocacy has generated lots of reactions from her fans and followers, while some felt she was right, some felt sex is a spiritual act and meant for married people, hence it should be kept as such.



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  • Well noted, me too am sex freaky.

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  • Well noted, me too am sex freaky.

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  • What reign humans' action in relation to sex, is the societal imposed set of codes and rules. Otherwise humans' sexual urge is no different from other animals who freely engaged in sex without border. Yes. Sex should be without border but one should note that even in the lesser animal kingdom, fight over sex leads to death. Hence the codes and rules to modify humans' control sexual interactions.

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  • You are right in the sense it's your body. But you have to hold your head up.

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  • Amusa has simply signed on to the other side of the world and not God. She speaks evil and that's her new nomenclature. Hope she rediscover God in her life in Jesus name amen.

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    • Amen

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  • I thought this Dayo is responsible, not knowing she is a shameless slut. If adultery and fornication is d virtues that you appreciate so much continue with ur generation but don't come to the public space with ur gutter mouth to promote d works of darkness as a harlot. Africans and many Nigerians know they have values, culture and the fear of God that sex is a spiritual thing meant to be enjoyed after marital consent. Any other modern days theories abt sex be free, shld be free and bazzar will never stand d text of time as it will always fail in line with God's injunction.

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  • This idea should better be personal to you alone, trying to sell it out to the public is wrong. Leave your wife waywardly as you want let's see how it ends up. That's my stand (The end justifies the means).

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  • I really appreciate all who have responded to let Amusa know she is a shame to women check it, those with HIV do this practice to infect others. Amusa, hope you are not a carrier looking for people to infect. instead look for assistance medically and spiritually

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  • Don't mind her. It is said that "old age is a regret"
    This is one of those regrets that will come to you when you become old eventually and no one will want to touch you again for sex.
    Better store up things that when you remember, you will smile and be at peace in old age.

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  • This type of mindset is better served personally. It's your life, your choice, the default line. Nobody cares.

    Trying to sell this, way of life to the public is a problem that wouldn't go without some backlash.

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