Confession Of A 10-Year Old: ‘I Cannot Do Without Sex Daily’

A 10-year old girl who was a victim of sexual abuse has made a shocking confession, saying that she cannot do without having sex with men daily.

She narrated how an old man, who was their neighbour at Mile 12, Lagos State, southwest Nigeria, lured her into sex at seven and since then she cannot resist having sex everyday.

The primary two pupil said if she did not see any man to have sex with her in her area, she would go to a popular under bridge at Mile 12 Lagos and beg for sex from touts.

She said she came from Enugu state to Lagos to live with her aunt after the death of her father.

Her case has become so serious that she had to be referred to an NGO, Community Health Support and Empowerment Initiative, COHSAEI, which has taken up the challenge to rehabilitate her.

The little girl said she was lured into sex by a man she called Baba who lived with her aunt in the same compound.

She said the man (Baba) usually called her to his apartment whenever his wife and her aunt were not around and will put his finger inside her private part.

“He will tell me to come back home immediately our school closes and when I reach home he will be waiting for me to finger my vagina,” she narrated.

She said with time he started having real sex with her.

She said when the man that initiated her into it moved out of their area, she resorted to meeting other men in the area without her aunt knowing.

She said she has become addicted to sex and cannot do without it.

“When I desire sex and I do not see anybody to do it in my area, I will go under the bridge and beg the touts to do it for me,” he said.

Her predicament came when she confessed to her teacher what she was going through after the teacher noticed some abnormal behaviour in her.

The teacher contacted her aunt who contacted an NGO for assistance.

The programme coordinator of the NGO, Mrs. Priscilla Ingbia, noted that her case was very pathetic because of her age. She said her group took up the challenge to rehabilitate her because it was clear if nothing was done urgently her future was in danger.

She said her organisation has started the process of rehabilitating her by carrying out series of tests on her to ascertain her health conditions.

Ingbia stressed the urgent need to relocate her from her present environment and start a new life for her.

She said her organisation has not been able to do so because of the financial cost of doing so.

—Cyriacus Izuekwe

75 COMMENTS

  1. That Baba should be looked for at all cost and be made to undo what he had done.its not ordinary.may God have mercy on the child and heal her Amen

  2. That Baba should be located and handed over to the relevant authorities. I pray that God himself would send financial help to resettle the girl. Its a pity Parents and Guardiance lets always try to find time for our children and wards

  3. THANK GOD SHE OPENED UP AND HELP IS REACHING HER MAY GOD TRANSFORM HER IN HIS MERCIES. NO STONE SHOULD BE LEFT UNTURNED IN TRYING TO LOCATE THE WICKED MAN AND HAND HIM HIS PUNISHMENT FOR HIS DEEDS THOUGH SURELY HE CANNOT ESCAPE THAT FROM GOD.

  4. God will punish the baba wherever he his, but I will really appreciate it if the NGO can get the old fool, so that he can pay for his sins, I’m quite sure that the same old fool will still be doing the same evil act with some other small girls in his present place, they should not allow him to go scot-free, God will save our country from all these atrocities that is befalling our country, our sins is getting out of hand , and we can say that God is seriously angry with us. World is very close to end.

  5. Why are you guys so dumb and naive to be relating this act to religion, why is it that you can’t think straight and comment on issues objectively? What made you think the so called “Baba” is a muslim? When you mentioned that a Northerner said Islam condones marrying little girls and told you to read the english version online, did you confirm to be sure that the man didn’t modify it to suit himself. Well if Islam condones it, is it without the consent of the parents. Please let us always find the truth about something before we use it as our basis of argument or judgement.

  6. @Pdp I think you are right because the Muslim are still practicing child abuse in the North by marrying kids. When I confronted a father who gave his female child of three years old in marriage to a forty years old, he ( the father ) quoted Koran for me in Arabic and challenge me to read the English version or read online to see that Allah has approved it. So if the rapist called Baba is a Muslim he can even pay bride price and marry the child. Shikina !

  7. THIS IS GIRL S UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF DEMONIC ATTACK WHICH WAS ACTIVATED BY THE SO CALLED BABA. SHE NEEDS PRAYER TO BE ABLE TO OVERCOME THE SITUATION

  8. I think president Goodluck Jonathan is the cause of the girls misfortune. He suppose to force the girl and his anti to church to be born again. But if the man is a Muslim, he has committed no crime because he is permitted by Islam to marry a six year old child just as Mohamed the wicked prophet did when she married Aisha his third wife who was disvirgin at the age of 8. If he is not, thenhe is a cultist on an assignment. Oh ! Pdp is to blame for all our problem including raping, child abuse, accidental discharge, road accident by drunk drivers, laziness, infertility of the land, thunder, earthquake, impotence, etc.
    Foolish followers who blame government for every misfortune.

    • @PDP and @City guide – what u guys are saying is not true about islam, this is a religion of peace.
      The Ass ho called ‘Baba’ should be punished and i wonder why/ an how would u relate such act with islam, Our noble prophet (S .A. W) marries Aishat(RA) with fully support of her father Abu barkir(RA) and she was sent back home for maturity.
      The hausa man in north unvail his marrage the young girl untouch.

      Your sisters and ladies,how many of them have not been married at 30’s but been sexed. How many ladies av u lied to and promised u wanna marry, fooling them because u wanna go under their pants.

  9. This is very sad because the said “baba” should be located, questioned and punished while her aunt should receive equal punishment for negligence on her part. They have negatively affected this little girls life and stolen her innocence as well. Its a case of one in a million because we have failed our youths and future leaders socio-economically.

  10. Grammarian Lawrence, you did not pinpoint where Habeeb made that grammatical blunder. Anyway, that is your headache. You cannot claim you know Quran more than the ones practising what it contains. You are a christian and you don’t know what it preaches. So, you cannot say what you don’t know, it is not Bible. Are you now saying Quran teaches rape. You are a disgrace to your religion. If you don’t know the best religion that forbids all bad things, it is Islam whose book is Quran.

  11. when the positive role of a mother in a home is missing or been questioned,these are the results,mothers are destiny groomers,if only her mother were der,screw it,dat so called “baba” shud nt go unpunished,pls my fellow nigerians lets employ our resourrces to see justice n d rehab of dat innocent child.

  12. Pdp or what do you call your name. I know you are dubious with your name. Whichever, you need to ask for forgiveness from God. I believe your great grand parents could not disrespect prophet Mohammed not to say you. PM did not mention the name of the person involved. How can you say he is a muslim? This menace is common in Nigeria, we all need prayer to solve the problem rather than say rubbish like you.

  13. @Habeeb Ur english stinks get a brighter grammar for moderation. Pdp was so stupid to have said but, He’s right just doesn’t knw how to bring it to conviction. This is actually what He was meant to say; Quar’an explicitly allows muslims to rape their female slaves, even those already married. (Qur’an 4:24, 29-30, 23:5-6) U muslims shouldn’t call for my head cos these are valid assertions from Ur Book. pick Ur Qur’an to read. She needs deliverance not; rehabitation cos rehabilitation is reversive in nature. JESUS WILL DELIVER HER!!!! Only Christ Delivers!!!!!!!

  14. D world is turning to another thing entirely parents need to be extra ordinary careful and prayerful as well I pray dat d girl will still get solution to her problem

  15. PDP,may your jesus corse you to hellfire,bcs youdeserve it weather you like it or not,and let me remained you that ISLAM is the only true religion on earth,by all the sign and symtoms that are happening,dont forget a child in lagos was born with quran,and no such thing happen with bible in the whole world and if there is,tell the place and the year,idiot bastard,jargon criminal,prostitude all this this acccording my powers i bestored on to your mother and father.

  16. wts wr0ng with d w0rld we are living in::::0h G0d pls deliver dis p00r girl cus she dnt deserve it::::pls

  17. Parents/guardians shud b vry careful d way dey handle dere children al dis y wia was dat aunty of hers dat cud nt evn for ones suspect ha daughter of such bhavious,wel i pray ntin bad to hpen to dat girl

  18. This is d fulfilment of God’s word. For d scriptures cannot be broken. For darkness shall cover d earth n gross darkness d pple. We r really in a dark age but d good news is dt d path of d righteous is lyk a shinning light dt shines more unto a perfect day. May God help us to find dis light. Parents also teach ur children the way they shld go

  19. May God have mercy on d little girl i blame d aunty dat didn’t notice dis on time it means she did nt care 4 her. I pray she will change 4 real. All d old papa youngie change 4rm ur evil ways.

  20. D GOVT SHD LOOK IN TO D MATTER AND ARRES D MAN & D GIRL SHD BE D property of d govt by taking good care of d girl.

  21. Huuu! Count ur bless and name dem on by one…u will c ΨђåƮ? God has done in ur life…if u are doing such thing just remind ur self the result…dat man might b the victim..who knows ΨђåƮ? The girl parent have done? Well God know best…blame ur govt…!

  22. wen we refused 2 obey divine law SHARIA dat hav solutn 2 evrything,in sharia law dat baba wil b stone 2 death in a open place,so dat it wil serve as a lesson 2 others.

  23. The bible say train up a child the way he should go and when he grow he will not depart from it. That is 4 the girl. Yoruba bo won ni agba o ko ogbon. Baba it is quiet unfortunate that we still have pple like u in the society. It a big shame on u

  24. Have u forgoteen the Guidance? WHY WOULDD SUCH A THING HAPPEN FOR TOO WITHOUT BEING NOTICED BY WHOEVER SHE STAYS WITH?
    “She said she came from Enugu state to Lagos to live with her aunt after the death of her father.” INSHORT, THE FIRST PERSON TO BE ARRESTED IS THE AUNT. WHO KNOWS IF SHE HAS NOT BEEN COLLECTING FROM DAT BABA?
    LIVE EVERYTHING TO GOD
    .

  25. Baba has ruined the little girl life. the baba must be arrest and send to where he suppose to belong.

  26. We need to make some research on both of them i.e something is wrong. Let us apply research and method to know what is wrong.

  27. my heart goes out to the poor girl may God deliver her from the bondage. I also pray to God to please let her test -ve to XYZ bcos it wasnt her fault

  28. This is a very serious case,it is not ordinary,the baba has used charm on this little girl.let’s all pray for God to heal this girl.is a pity case.10 years old!!!

  29. Its end time! The signs are everywhere but it takes spiritual mind to understand, God have mercy on us.

  30. Am a prison officer nd as am saying i pray d police shud go 4 dat bastard nd bring him 2 d prison at kirikiri. I personally promise him hell b4 d real hell above.

  31. Oh God for how long should we continue, geting this deadly news which have been the order of the day. This world need to be condemned by God

  32. This is critically pathetic, it’s either d child is posses or she has bn influenced negatvly. As for baba, he has no escape route becoz God wld judge hm. As 4d gurl, even if baba has gone, can’t she kp herself? Must she beg 4 sex from touts? Olorun asa nu fun e oooo.

  33. Only GOD can hlp us in dis country, pls hlp restore her bak to a normal life ooooo. Nd d man. In qustn shld be trkd nd prosecuted by d law

  34. The Police can track down and arrest this man. If for nothing a trial and jail will serve as a deterrant to other babas out there. The NGO, how equipped are they for this rehabilitation? Shouldn’t it have been in collaboration with the child welfare unit of the ministry of health or whatever ministry?

  35. I pity for the girl. Then i pray for the man (baba) who violated the girl. ‘may he reap his fruit forever and ever.

  36. Chei!!! This is a very shocking story… Who knows if Baba was possessed by the demons of sex and he transferred some to this innocent girl!

  37. Not until we pass a law that any man convicted of rape should be castrated, this kind of incidents will not stop.

    • Thank you Olamide. Do we even have people in the NASS to pass the law? the country of bad leaders. They are all rogues, Robbers and touts in the house of lies NASS. Our leaders dont care to protect the masses. They are only after what to steal or loot. Bastads leaders and vagabonds in power

  38. Pls parent and others dat have minor staying them should pls monitor there childrens movement so dat they will no when soothing is wrong. Because for a girl of ten to go mile 12 show dat she have a lot of free hand at home. PARENT PLS BE WARE

    • Well this life is coming to and end if you are doing bad contenue but remember your six fit nobody can escape it.

  39. The world is indeed a wicked place to live, what manner of man could BABA be, God have mercy on us, we call upon you and you alone to come to our rescue.

  40. May God bring somebody somewhere to avenge this cruel act. That is by distroying his
    own daughter too

  41. Pls to who ever is rehabilitating; do not forget the spiritual rehabilitation. Very important. Do not play ignorance.

  42. I pity that little girl,and may God 4give that useless man.police need 2 get d use man arrest and jail him 4eva.

  43. That’s why there’s always time for everything. The WISE OLD sayings hardly go to waste. Unfortunately, the old man here has led not by example. A fool past 40 is a damage to the society.

  44. Dis is a serious case. What a pity to d girl they suppose to arrest dat man call baba dat started finger her because he is d one that teach her all dis rubbish they should just go and do hiv test for d girl am sure dat dat man as contact hiv for him to spare it out

  45. Dis is a serious case. What a pity to d girl they suppose to arrest dat man dat started finger her because he is d one that teach her all dias rubbish they shoul just go and do hiv test for d girl am sure dat dat man as contact hiv for him to spare it out

  46. oga oo
    what is the world turning into?
    of all the females around, this ‘baba’ could not choose anyone but this child.
    i pray she regains normalty soon. God help us o, the world is really coming to an end.

    • I think president Goodluck Jonathan is the cause of the girls misfortune. He suppose to force the girl and his anti to church to be born again. But if the man is a Muslim, he has committed no crime because he is permitted by Islam to marry a six year old child just as Mohamed the wicked prophet did when she married Aisha his third wife who was disvirgin at the age of 8. If he is not, then he is a cultist on an assignment. Oh ! Pdp is to blame for all our problem including raping, child abuse, accidental discharge, road accident by drunk drivers, laziness, infertility of the land, thunder, earthquake, impotence, etc. Foolish followers who blame government for every thing.

    • Islam and the holy prophet has nothing to do with ur myopic,bigotry and foolish ideology of abusing peoples religion. Go back to ur source and search properly what u said is a lies. It is only a pagan that abuse others religion.

    • Mr who ever you call your self. You know quiet well what you said was wrong and that is why you are hidden your identity. First of all Islam and muslims did nothing to you but you go on saying stupid things against them. My religion ISLAM did not teach me to insult or look down on any body. By your action this clearly shows what you practice which is very unfortunate in that case. May God deliver you from your evil way of thinking. Amem!

    • pdp u are avery insane idiot, if u can call our dear prophet a wicked man, look i wont insult ur parent bcos the innocent couples did not offend me but i am very sure that by now the greatest mistake they made
      is giving birth to u bcos no sane parent will want to associate with an insane idiotic idiot like u,
      GOD forgive u before ur useless soul will finally be taken away

    • Ur head is not correct if. He was christen ko. You mean muslim dont know what they are doing be that. Becareful bad talk 4fr ur mouth.

    • @pdp or wat d hell is ur name. U must be very stupid for saying such. How dare u? Dats how u guys start religious crises.. Is it ur pastor dat told u Prohet Muhd married Aisha at d age of 8 or u just fabricated the story? Besides, wat does d Prophet’s story has to do with the issue on ground. I think U are out of ur senses. Neva in ur stupid life say dat again.

    • pdp, the individual you insulted is a prophet sent by the Lord that created you and sustains you. Yet you have the guts, arrogance, ignorance and stupidity to insult him and revile him (May the peace and blessings of ALLAH be with him). I ask ALLAH to seal your heart so that you never repent until death meets you.

      And if you die upon what you are upon today (of disbelief), then i give you the news of eternal life in Hell-fire where you will dine with your boss “Shaitan” (the devil) and the evil jinns that are suggesting those nasty ideas to you.

    • I wonder what d man speaking ill of d prophet whant to achieve w his comment,it shows he can’t think very well,anyway my prayer is dat d girl will get a cure to her problem

    • What else is there that you are yet to blame president Goodliuck Jonathan for?

      Just about a year in office, you and your likes have accussed him of being responsble for problems in Nigeria that existed before the unification of the north and the south to independence and to date?!

      It’s will be good to read the comments from people with ‘properly adjusted head’ comment on this forum!

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