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Pastor’s Confession: My Wife Asked Me To Have Sex With Other Women  print

Published on May 25, 2012 by   ·   20 Comments

Pastor and founder of the Glory of God Ministries, Charles Nwoji, has confessed before an Ojo Grade ‘A’ customary court, Lagos, Southwest Nigeria, that his wife, Happiness, gave him the go ahead to have sex with other women.

The divorce seeking pastor who said he met his wife in 1993 when he was a member of Assemblies of God Church at Olodi, Apapa, where he was later ordained a pastor, and subsequently started his own church, told the court that their marriage started having problems when his wife’s nephew came to live with the family.

“We dated for a while and finally got married in 1998. We lived in peace and harmony. She was even a signatory to my bank account. That is to show you how much love and trust I once had for her but problem started when her nephew came to live with us. She always displayed callous attitude towards the poor boy. When I protested, she took offence and we had a serious misunderstanding. And for the first time I raised my hands against her.

“After that incident, we hardly sit to chat, play or discuss together. Our sex life also suffered. We practically didn’t make love anymore, only whenever we are ready to make babies. I slept facing the wall. What actually shocked me the more was her advice for me to keep girlfriends. I was astonished and asked her to have a second thought on what she was saying, but she still maintained her stand,” he said.

The father of four told the court that his wife’s unyielding disposition towards their sex life drove him further into the arms of strange women, adding that the depression really took a toll on him and he went astray.

“When I came back to my senses, I felt very remorseful about my adulterous life. I called my wife and in the presence of my father, I confessed my waywardness to her and asked for her forgiveness. Though she initially claimed to have forgiven me, she insisted that the marriage was better dissolved so we could go our separate ways.

“After fruitless meeting with her family members to resolve the issue, I decided to leave the house for her. But before I left, I pleaded with her to change her mind, but all my pleas fell on deaf ears. I left the house in tears and shattered heart. I put up with a friend for a while. Later, I sold all my landed properties and travelled to the Philippines to seek greener pasture,” he said.

He said prior to his confession, he was having setbacks in his business, adding that he gathered the little money he had and borrowed from friends to set up a booming business for her.

“I was broke and bankrupt and my wife refused to care for my needs. She left me to die in hunger”

He said further that it was while he was abroad that his brother called him and informed him that his wife had been spreading false stories about his failed attempts to use her and their second daughter for money-making ritual, adding she also said he sent assassins after her and she had on two occasions narrowly escaped their bullets.

“I came back to dismiss these rumours and to formally have the absurd marriage dissolved. So, if anything should happen to her in future, people would not point accusing fingers at me,” Nwoji, who has since remarried and has children told the court.

He prayed the court to have the custody of the four children of the union for proper fatherly care, adding that his utmost concern is to erase the notion their mother infused in them that their father is a ritualist.

His wife, Happiness Lebechi Nwoji, while reacting to the allegations levelled against her, agreed to the dissolution of the marriage, adding that it has broken down irreversibly. After listening to both parties, the president of the court, Alhaji T.A. Said, dissolved the union and urged them to maintain absolute peace.

—Jamiu Yisa

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20 Comments for “Pastor’s Confession: My Wife Asked Me To Have Sex With Other Women”

  1. Rotimi shittu

    I dont no why some people will just wake up and said they want to be a pastor fake fake people building church even small shop they will manage it nigeria beware of going to fake church

  2. Steve

    He is not a pastor. I think pm news should be careful not to decieve people to belinving the man is a pastor. He said he is into business in Phillipines.

  3. Nwoji; if u re called by God u should,nt abandon d church 4 bisnez jst bkos of ur wife, again y should ur wife advice u to sleep with a strenge woman re u a kid? U better repent 4 d kingdom of God is @ hand.

  4. Itangsema

    pastor indeed!!! an Alhaji dissolving a pastor’s marriage. how ironic…

  5. adeyemi tobias ndudi

    ABEG LEAVE THE MAN JOO. HE MADE MISTAKE AND SO DOING HE FELT THAT HE WAS NOT WORTHY TO BE A MINISTER OF GOD, I WANT TO BELIEVE THAT IS THE REASON HE LEFT PASTORAL DUTIES.
    I THINK THE MARRIAGE SHOULD STAND DISSOLVED FOR THE GOOD OF BOTH PARTIES. HOWEVER, THE ONEROUS TASK IS HOW TO GET BACK HIS CHILDREN’s CONFIDENCE IN HIM. WHOEVER THAT GETS THE CUSTODY SHOULD NOT STOP THE OTHER FROM GETTING ACCESS TO THE CHILDREN OR ELSE IN FUTURE, THERE WILL BE COMPLICATION AND THE CURRENT LOVE THE CHILDREN HAVE FOR EITHER PARENT MAY TURN TO HATRED IN FUTURE.

  6. Ramon

    religious percpetive have strangle most nigerians and make many nigerians live a frustrated life.

  7. edify

    Ppl lyk dis hv brot shame 2 d body of christ.

  8. adewale

    Simply,what do we say Alhaji has done?He’s in Charge to dissolve Marriage and even if Muslims are ready to dissolve dia Marriage,he’ll do as long as he’s in Charge.Let’s go straight to d point.Should a Man of God fornicate?He’s supposed to caned and stoned if he were to be a Muslim!That’s d judgement..He’s a stain to Christiandom and he should be barnished and re admiTted to d Schl of Theology for Proper Teaching.He must have had a Half theology Training for his Misconduct and must have been a Sex Machine before who enjoy sampling girls.May God forgive him

  9. Pst Paul Olagunju

    I discover dat any smoker dat calls himself pastor is regarded as one,some1 whos nt even born again,most of d pipu u find doing those heinous acts,if diligently investigated ar nt true pastors.A pastor friend once told me how his wife permits him to hv affair with another girl bcs d wife hates hvng sex,so i advised him 2 arrange wit a girl(relative)nd eat n drink together in d wife’s prescence. She went mad.What d u want here? She asked d girl.She started coperatng with d husband since then.adultery is SIN!

  10. Peters

    He is not a pastor called by God. Its a nick name. Cal him pastor pion.

  11. The devil is really at work!

  12. Owolabi Omolade

    infact,we ar facin d end time.those that love going to church because of pastors may God help you o.What some pastors are doing is worse than boko haram

  13. This sex of a thing,can distro.family.

  14. merite

    the man is not a pastor he’s a business man,and der’s no love in that marriage d best way is dt dey shuld go their seperate way.

  15. olas

    What is different b/w Church nd business?

  16. Ibukun

    Gen2men, dere was a rotten rat evey1 here seemed not 2 av percieved here,D problem was frm dat wizard nephew who casted spell on dem nd d pastor was too weak 2 resist it; alas! He had bewitched them.

  17. ay

    Thou shall not judge….Nigeria don spoil finish…I am praying fO̶̷̩̥̊͡Я WAR…

  18. Hakeem

    It is better that the marriage is dissolved. No love between them again. How many people has the husband told in his family or the wife’s family of the wife’s advice before he started having affairs with women outside? He was at fault.

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