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Pregnant Woman Shuns Sex With Husband

Published on December 15, 2011 by   ·   64 Comments

The police at Ajao Estate division, Lagos State, southwest Nigeria have arrested a businessman, Solomon Iwuchukwu,  for allegedly attempting to strangle his pregnant wife, Ifeoma, who denied him sex.


The 54-year old Solomon who hails from Mbaise in Imo State and  lives at 21, Anthony Udoh Street, Ajao Estate, told the police at the station that since he returned from abroad, his pregnant wife had refused to have sex with him. He said that she locks her room and always refuse him entry. “And she doesn’t come into my room to sleep, either,” he added.

Ifeoma, 33, is eight months pregnant and expecting her baby.

The businessman became a guest of the police when he allegedly forced his way into his wife’s room and attempted to have sex with her by force. He allegedly held her by the neck and attempted to strangle her before she was rescued by her sister living with them. It took the intervention of a team of police officers from Ajao Estate Station who raced to their house and arrested Solomon to bring the situation under control.

The shocked woman, it was gathered, took her two kids to the station for protection and told the police that she will not go back to their house because Solomon threatened to kill her and her unborn baby.

Narrating her ordeal to P.M.NEWS, Ifeoma disclosed that her problem started last year when her husband returned from abroad and opened a sachet water factory at Sango, Ogun State.

She said he could not manage the business and it collapsed. She said the money he invested in the business went down the drain and he started blaming her for his woes. “Since then he turned his anger on me,” she stated. She explained that she had been a constant victim of battering by her husband and she had no place to go with her two children because she is an orphan.

She said appeals by her relations and police to her husband to stop beating her fell on deaf ears.  She also denied starving him of sex, as he claimed and wondered why he should still be sleeping with her at this advanced stage of her pregnancy, adding that he knew her medical history of losing pregnancies before delivery.. “He doesn’t treat me as his wife at all and believes that I am his property to be used at will,” she added.

She said she is helpless because of her condition and did not know what to do.

Meanwhile, a non-governmental organisation, International Charitable Initiative for Girl-child and Women Foundation has stepped into her case.

During her visit to the station to see the embattled housewife, the president of the Foundation, Barrister Helen Ibeji, described the action of the husband who is detained at at the station as inhuman, barbaric and uncalled for.

She disclosed that her foundation decided to intervene in the matter to protect the woman and the unborn child.

“A man should treat his wife with respect and dignity,” she submitted. When asked to comment on the matter, the divisional police officer, Mr. Oliver Amaechi declined but assured that his men were investigating the matter and will take appropriate action.

— Cyriacus Izuekwe

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64 Comments for “Pregnant Woman Shuns Sex With Husband”

  1. observer

    Abi the man wan take the woman and her unborn child do jazz. Why you wan kill person because she no give you sex.

    From the woman’s account, the man’s business don collapse and he had been battering her only for him to come now demanding for sex with an eight month pregnant woman.
    I dey fear o!

  2. Muideen

    This is a private issue that should not have gone out of the bedroom. The woman must be very silly for choosing to wash their dirty linen outside. Besides, it is both morally and religiously wrong to deny one’s partner sex when he or she requests for it.

    As for the man, oga haba, there are millions of young girls on the street now, it is a big offence to force sex on somebody – whether your wife or not. If she says she is tired or not in the mood, then find some one else.

    Then PM News, please you people can find better news for us than this uninteresting thrash.

  3. This is a family issue that we should not comment on any how. I see the man’s anger but he over reacted by laying hands on pregnant woman, it shows that he is not man enough, meanwhile the woman is wicked on her own side by refusing her husband sex at these stage of pregnancy, why on her ante-natal doctors will advice pregnant women to have regular sex with their spouse for easy delivery,and healthy child. unless health complications are involved. Imagen after staying abroad coming home to felicitate with ur family and your wife denied you that which shows love b/w hubby nd wify, it’s bad, the woman has cockroach in her cupboard, something is wrong somewhere, Unless the woman is suspecting her husband as flirt or the man living with a white woman overseas that made his wife to be afraid of infecting her and her unborn baby with H.I.V virus, that is something they have to sit down 2gether and iron it out without washing their dirty linen outside.

  4. Mike

    This is purely a domestic matter that need resolve amicably, the intervention of this NGO will worsen the matter, because am very sure they can’t care for this woman and he unborn baby, just advice and mediate between them.

    Body no be firewood and to demand for sex from your pregnant wife is far better than womanizing around.


  5. Look here woman you are 9 months pregnant does not mean that your husband can`t` have sex with you. look even if a woman is going to deliver in the next 48 hrs that does not stop her husband from sleeping with her ,it`s not going to kill the baby , you know an hungry man is angry man so women try to blend with your husband its happening in so many house that is the secret of some settle homes otherwise you are sending your husband out to other ladies that are looking for him there is no man that is not doing that so stop washing you dirt linens in the public a word is enough for a wise.


  7. Thank you lorretta we are no fool but this is the truth we are african that does not mean we have no sense of belonging or we are weaked if you are a nigeria we will give you agbo that will make you strong till you deliver the baby we are not tablet children . if the woman see her husband with another woman she will fight him why is she running away from her duty it doesn`t kill i understand she might not feel like have it that moment but not everyday before it result to fight.

  8. FM

    You must be crazy for that stupid talk of yours Uzoamaka, naso u sef dey do for house, moreover ur type no dey stay for husband house…… Wat she should have done in a reasonable manner so that the world will not interfere is now the topic of discourse and debate online…..some women no even get shame. If she pleaded and persuaded the man, he might reason with him and even pity him. I believe she was proving sturbborn with her husband and that is why that happened.

  9. BABY

    I pity dis woman cos she wl regret her actions, she has no parents n her husband is in d police custody, who will feed her n d children? a gud christian don’t report such case to police instead let her go to their pastor it could have been better.

  10. Ennie

    Well maybe d man does nt treat her well on a gud day else,i dont think any married woman will want 2 deny her husband sex knwing dat our MEN always have a plan B outside…. But i’m not happy wit dis woman 4 exposin her marital affair. How would she face him ‘if’ dey reconcile???

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    Bastard woman, liar and big fool? She has been fucking around in Ajao Estate and all over the Lagos, that was the reason why, she refuse to give the husband sex but I believe the problem was not the issue of having sex, maybe she has used all the money that man made when he was aboard to Fuck little boys on the street, that such her puss because when looking at her Bad face, she is the kind of woman that like little boys sucking, God must surly pay you back with bad things because you are not a good person in any way, fucker fucker


    This is a matter to be putting on pm news about sex because it does not make any sense at all, why should a woman will not allow her husband to sleep with her or come inside her room for a while, it means that, she get that pregnant from outside and when looking at her face, she is not a Good wife or a marriage material at all, she is the kind of woman that fuck around but the best for the man for do is this, he could have forget about her and live his own life, that trying to kill her, it does not make any sense at all? MRS FUCK FUCK FUCK

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